If there is a way to connect even if it is through a hosted site then can you please show me how to code both roblox and the site. I want to be able to request/edit/update data from mysql server.
Yes, there is.
I'll leave a link to someone who has done it if you want guidance: https://devforum.roblox.com/t/using-mysql-to-save-data/312592
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